5 days.
–Elapsed time between starting a subby femme blog and getting messaged by some rando who opens with cryptic domineering posturing instead of, you know, saying hello and then proceeds to pull every textbook red flag “you do not want to let this person anywhere near your brain under any circumstances” move in the book.
Some people just can’t help themselves.
They absolutely can. They just don’t want to, and think finding a sub means they don’t have to.