Wow, this thread is super mean, but important information about the volume of shittiness happening out there associated with our kink… We have to be way better than average in our consent policing to have a hope of counteracting this.
(I have an optical illusion poster on my wall)
PSA, always be above reproach.
True. Like I have told SO MANY people, the first step to addressing a problem is being aware of, and fully accepting, that it exists. This is not something to be brushed over, or minimized, or excused. This is something that needs to be actively challenged and those people need to be shown the door. On top of that, we as more responsible people need to be taking reasonable steps to help the people most hurt by this both to minimize the harm already done and, to the extent it is possible, prevent it in the future.