So… when I came out a few days ago, I said I was bi.

But I’m not actually sure about that?

I’m attracted to women. Always have been, always will be. But… I’ve also always fantasized about men dominating women, and I now realize it’s because I want to be the woman in that fantasy.

Last night, I masturbated while imagining I had a vagina and tits and I was thin and yougn and pretty and getting fucked by one guy while I blew another, and it was the best time ever.

But I’m not attracted to men. I just wanna be fucked by ‘em.

So am I bi? Or a very confused lesbian with a weird fetish?

I don’t know.

You can be your own flavor of bi.  There is no one definition.  There’s not someone going around checking your bi credentials and making sure you’re up to code.  You’re who you are. 🙂

Thanks, that actually helps a lot to hear. <3