The world is complex. Yes there are absolutes, but most of the world is shades of gray.
The good news here is she doesn’t have to think about any of that right now. She writes because I told her to, so she does. What she writes is not as important as her doing what I ask. The writing, the dressing up, the truly incredible things she will do with her body shortly.
That makes her good to me. Really, what else is there?