Something I think we forget sometimes is that kink isn’t always a reflection of reality

I enjoy being worshipped, that doesn’t make me arrogant

If someone enjoys humiliating, it doesnt mean they’ll treat everyone like garbage

This also works vice versa

If someone enjoys being a collared pet, it doesn’t mean others can treat them that way

If someone enjoys being a slut and doing dirty things, it doesn’t mean they want others to treat them that way

Context is important. Rapport is important. Consent is important.

Get to know people genuinely and not bc you want something from them in the end.